How do we define Xanga?  It was a blogging platform where we just wrote things in more than just three sentences, and then people would comment and that's how you got to know people. So it was kind of like Facebook, but the long version.

Lisa is a fellow Midwesterner, whose favorite band, if my memory serves, is Bowling For Soup.  She is all sorts of busy, since she has three children. We met online over two decades ago, and she once did something very kind for me, so she's one of those people I will…